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We Don’t Agree on How Often to Have Sex – Podcast: Dr. John Deloney
There are similar discussions that couples struggle with; finances, sex, in-laws, parenting etc. An often not discussed conversation, especially in Christian marriages is anything around sex. I am going to start posting some thoughts on this topic. Please remember...

Podcast with Sheila Wray Gregoire | Direct Communication 101–with Your Spouse and Your Kids!
I had the chance to be on the Bare Marriage podcast with Sheila Wray Gregoire recently. I really appreciate the conversation Sheila is having on all aspects of marriage. If you have not subscribed, click the link below; you will be taken to the podcast page with more...

Sexting Among Kids Is Bigger Than Ever—and Often Illegal. Here’s How to Talk to Your Child.
Sexting is a topic you as a parent must address. Here are some thoughts from a great article on this. Girls get requests for nude selfies as a precursor to dating; boys share unsolicited ‘nudes,’ raising issue of consent I first want to acknowledge that this article...

Brett’s Picks – The Great Sex Rescue
New book The Great Sex Rescue. In a few of my talks, I speak about how dysfunctional our church world often is in our conversations on sex both in parenting as well as in our marriages. I am really looking forward to the release of this book coming up soon by Sheila...

Help! I think I’m addicted to pornography | How to quit pornography for good
A common conversation I have with people is about how to quit porn. So pornography is one of the 7 topics that I speak on. I have a large presentation I speak called "the porn project" - https://youtu.be/KkWPcvGp23c.There are so many conversations needed around this...

Help! My spouse is watching porn | Interview with a Psychotherapist
Brett - My spouse is watching porn, or is my spouse is addicted to pornography. What do I do? This is the question I often get asked after my speaking dates. I often have parents talk to me after my talks or message me and seem quite lost with what to do. In my last...

Help! My kid is watching porn | interview with a psychotherapist | 7 questions
Help my kid is watching porn seems to be a growing message I get from parents. What do I do? Pornography is one of the 7 topics that I speak on. I have a large presentation I do called the porn project. Click here to see this talk. For today I wanted to bring on...

The 7 Deadly Sins: Mark clark
Really great sermon series from Mark Clark from Village Church in BC. Well worth your time. https://youtu.be/3BeME17JXtU https://youtu.be/J4ucAT8lMJU https://youtu.be/OTpujs79f9Y https://youtu.be/vlNI0sUYwqY https://youtu.be/MlGsUUO5ujs https://youtu.be/y1ms9Ia0Dgk...

pornography & sexualized culture – Paul Lavergne with Brett Ullman (interview)
A few months ago I had the chance to be interviewed by Paul Lavergne who is a Registered Psychotherapist & Sexual Recovery Therapist. Paul and I met a few years ago at a conference on pornography in Ottawa. In this interview we had some really great conversations...

Reimagining masculinity; my journey as a male sexual assault survivor | Landon Wilcock | TEDxQueensU
Powerful talk on sexual assault and masculinity. What I've come to understand is that there is no one identity of a man, and there's no necessity for one's personal type of masculinity to be the same as another's. As a survivor of sexual assault, Landon came to view...

